It is important to build up your child's self-confidence from an early age. Use positive enforcement whenever he achieves something. Never make him feel like a failure as that will inhibit him from endeavoring again. The more stimulation and opportunity he has, the more likely he is to feel confident at doing things on his own. Playing a variety of games alone and with other children, visiting other people's homes and public places all help to increase your child's range of knowledge and experience. Socialization and daily routines provide perfect opportunities to encourage your child's independence.



• Allow him to make decisions sometimes such as choosing his own clothes to wear.



• Allow him to do things for himself even if he makes mistakes at first.



• Avoid being dominant when playing with him. Let him be the leader in games such as 'Follow the leader'.



• Include your child in adult conversations whenever appropriate.



• Make deliberate silly mistakes such as emptying food from an unopened can and let your child correct you.



• Encourage him to discuss his feelings and ideas.



• Apologize to him when you have been unfair



• If your child is shy, encourage him to join small groups but don't force him.