It is important to build up your child's self-confidence
from an early age. Use positive enforcement whenever
he achieves something. Never make him feel like a failure
as that will inhibit him from endeavoring again. The
more stimulation and opportunity he has, the more likely
he is to feel confident at doing things on his own.
Playing a variety of games alone and with other children,
visiting other people's homes and public places all
help to increase your child's range of knowledge and
experience. Socialization and daily routines provide
perfect opportunities to encourage your child's independence.
• Allow him to make decisions sometimes such as
choosing his own clothes to wear.
• Allow him to do things for himself even if he
makes mistakes at first.
• Avoid being dominant when playing with him.
Let him be the leader in games such as 'Follow the leader'.
• Include your child in adult conversations whenever
appropriate.
• Make deliberate silly mistakes such as emptying
food from an unopened can and let your child correct
you.
• Encourage him to discuss his feelings and ideas.
• Apologize to him when you have been unfair
• If your child is shy, encourage him to join
small groups but don't force him.
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